Never Give Up

        No one likes to think about death, but it is a reality that can’t be escaped. There is no fountain of youth; there is no “miracle drug” that can grant you immortality. Though the concept of such things is popular in movies and books, we eventually have to stop reading and come back to the real world, where the presence of death is much more tangible. In a movie, the director can create any outcome for the main character that he likes; but if you get shot or are diagnosed with cancer in real life, you can’t just shout “Cut!” and rewrite that moment to better suit your tastes. When we are given a certain lot in life, we must learn to live with it. That being said, there’s a difference between accepting the facts about something while doing your best to deal with and perhaps improve them, and allowing yourself to despair and give up because of those facts.

        James “Rhio” O’Connor is a wonderful example for people dealing with cancer; he was diagnosed with a terrible cancer, but instead of giving in to despair, he accepted the facts and did his best to improve his situation. Many people in his situation wouldn’t have the strength or endurance to battle his prognosis as he did, which is why Rhio is such an inspiration. Rhio was diagnosed with mesothelioma and told that he had only a year to live. Mesothelioma is a disease in which cells of the mesothelium (a membrane which covers and protects most of the body’s internal organs) divide uncontrollably, potentially invading and damaging the organs protected by the mesothelium. When someone has mesothelioma, cancer cells can spread from the original site of the cancer to the rest of the body, making this a terrifying and truly disheartening cancer.

        Though Rhio was only given one year to live, through research, determination and an ever-optimistic attitude, he outlived his prognosis by over six years. If I am ever unfortunate enough to be diagnosed with cancer, I’ll be sure to remember Rhio’s wonderful example when deciding which treatments to use. If, for example, I was given a prognosis where surgery, chemotherapy or radiation offered only a small chance of actually treating me, I wouldn’t just give up. I would look into alternative medicines and weight the varying risk factors and potential benefits of each of them. After all, researching various vitamins, minerals and healthy life changes played a big part in Rhio’s outliving his prognosis. Just because a natural remedy isn’t tested and proven by clinical trials doesn’t mean that it’s not worth looking into.

        I believe wholeheartedly in the power of nature. When my uncle was bed-ridden in a nursing home, it was my mother’s medical knowledge along with her open mind when it came to “unorthodox” medicines that kept him as healthy as he was. For the six long years he spent in that nursing home, my mother researched and used a wide variety of techniques in an attempt to alleviate his pain and heal him, including acupuncture and various herbal remedies. Just because something isn’t common practice yet, doesn’t mean its potential is in any way diminished. Besides, who knows what the future holds? Those “unorthodox” medicines may someday become main-stream for treating cancer. After all, many medicines come from nature; herbs are the root of most medicines. I’ve seen first-hand what an optimistic and open-minded approach can do for those who are ailing, so I know that if I ever did contract cancer, I’d research natural remedies just as much as commonly practiced things like chemotherapy. I believe that keeping an open mind and talking to a wide variety of doctors and other patients who are similarly diagnosed is best when trying to decide on a treatment for something as serious as cancer.  

        I feel that anyone dealing not only with cancer, but also with any other ailment that mainstream medicine is unable to cure, would find looking into alternative medicines beneficial. These alternative approaches can be very useful, and should be available to everyone; after all, it’s your body and you should be able to decide what to use to heal it. That being said, one should definitely keep in mind the opinions of the doctors one speaks to when discussing different medicines and procedures. Your doctor isn’t right one hundred percent of the time, but he or she probably knows much more about medicine than you do. If you research properly and use common sense along with the advice of the professionals you talk to, then you can use all that you’ve learned to make an informed decision about what treatments to use.

        Of course, rather than waiting until you have cancer to decide on how to treat it, it would be best if you knew ways to prevent it, so that you never got it in the first place. I believe that ways to prevent cancer should be broadcast more publicly; that way, more people would learn what they should and shouldn’t do when it comes to preventing cancer. For example, if commercials and public service announcements with advice about how to prevent cancer were more prominent, I believe that the number of people who contract it would drop more than some might think. Warning about getting too much sun, tanning beds, smoking, and also the links between being overweight and cancer, would all be good subjects to broadcast to the public. After all, part of what helped Rhio stay alive so long is that he switched to a healthier diet and added different vitamins and minerals to it, helping him to outlive his prognosis by six amazing years. Learning Rhio’s story has inspired me not only to never give up when it comes to seemingly impossible odds, but also to begin living a healthier lifestyle now, so that I don’t have to go through what he did. I want to live a long, healthy life, and it all starts with making intelligent decisions about how I live. If I start living a healthier life now, I’m sure I’ll thank myself in the future.